It can be one of the most frustrating and upsetting times when you are lying in bed and hear that little whimper. Ever wondered how to ease the transition and stop the crying? In this article I will show you how.
Useful items
Wrap a hot water bottle in a towel or thick blanket and put it at one end of the bed. This simulates the warmth of another dog. Put a ticking clock in the room with your puppy to simulate the heart beat of another dog; your puppy is used to sleeping with its brothers and sisters. A stuffed animal can be of great comfort to your puppy; a little larger than them is usually a good fit (make sure it does not have any plastic parts for your puppy to chew on).
DAP
Dog appeasing pheromone can be purchased from your vet and comes in two forms. A plug in (in the same way an air freshener works) or a spray that can be applied to bedding. It releases a synthetic analogue of a pheromone that is secreted by bitches during whelping. It has been proven to relax dogs and puppies and should allow for a more peaceful night sleep. It has also been demonstrated that it can reduce fear and even improve house training acquisition.
Exercise / Toilet / Chill out time / Comfort
Make sure your puppy is worn out before you leave it for the night. A short walk before bed or some intensive training/play time are essential. Once you have worn your puppy out the best thing to do is to take him or her out to the bathroom see house training so you know if they cry they do not need to be let out. After they have peed and pooped, take your puppy to its bed and say ‘bed’, gently stroke and relax your puppy until he/she falls asleep. Make sure your puppy has water available, some paper down in case they need to go and a nice comfortable bed. Also be aware of the temperature; too hot or too cold and your puppy won’t sleep well.
What to do when your puppy cries at night
When you leave your puppy for the night try not to make too much of a fuss. After the relaxation session your puppy should be settled and you can simply leave the room without encouraging your puppy to come to the door. This is the trickiest part for any new puppy owner. When the puppy cries or barks throughout the night you must not go down to the puppy. Given you have followed the previous advice you can rest assured you have covered all of your puppies needs. It can be a difficult first few nights but by going down to check on the puppy you can accidentally reinforce the barking. This can mean your puppy learns I bark and Mum or Dad come running down i.e. I get attention. It makes little difference if you go down to comfort or chastise the puppy as at this stage any attention is good attention. If you have already been going to your puppy when it cries, then the same rules apply but the results will take slightly longer to see. Fear not, young puppies are extremely quick learners. This puppy training method will pay you back ten fold and being consistent will enable your puppy to cope with being left alone during the day and help prevent other attention seeking behaviours whilst you are busy around the house.
TOP TIP – tell your neighbours you are expecting to get a puppy but you have a training schedule already worked out to minimise any noise during the night. You can even organise when you pick your puppy up so that it is at a weekend in order to ensure you are not disturbing any neighbours that are due to have an early start.
I was a bit skeptical about the ticking clock. I bought a small ticking clock for €2 in the shape of a football, Scottie keeps it in the bed and it is the only thing in the Den that has never and I mine NEVER been chewed. Its the best thing I’ve ever gotten him beside his Kong.
Great post, the ticking tock is really good but only for some dogs, what we have found that works well is a small radio with very low music and of coarse lights all off. Other than that we can cover the crate if you’re using crate training mbut please lets make sure we leave an open space for ventalation. And apart from that we can also use a Kong.
HI Ihave a 17 week old puppy we keep her in her bed at night downstairs there is a stair gate so she cant get up stairs in the night but this is now a problem she crys for hours i leave her but the whole house is a wake all night with her crying and houling ive tryed hot water bottle and a clock but they are not working she is so desprate to get up stairs that she is trying to get through the railings what can we do to help her sleep through the night .
Have you tried crate training her? A crate can add security. Make sure it is not too big or small for her and cover it with a blanket. Also make sure she is tired before bedtime, been to the toilet, then take 5 mins to settle her down. Do not drag out going to bed or put a cue to it. Also practising during the day is key. Leave her down there and go and read for a bit upstairs, only returning when she is quiet, she will soon learn there is nothing to fret about and you will be coming back every time..
I have puppy mix lab 3 1/2 months, and I train my puppy in her room, the room is front of my room.. I have urinate her and given the food for at least 2 and half hours of her bedtime… The bedtime is around 8.30 pm.. And I prepare the drink for she to drink all the night… It’s okay if her pee in the night, but she cries everytime nobody outside in the room, I had make her play from afternoon in 3.30 pm until 5 pm… she soo hyperactive… but she don’t want be alone.. it’s okay if I leave her whining and cries?? And everytime the water pump engine is on she stop cries….
Hi we have a 10 week old Lab/Cocker cross puppy who seems to be having the same dilemma as everyone else. First night he was absolutely fine, cried for a mere 20 minutes and we knew that if we went down he would keep expecting it so he fell asleep quickly. The second night however, he got very distressed and pooed in his crate because we were told to close the crate a couple of times at night so he knew that it was his territory etc. We have heared about the ticking clock and a friend has mentioned it to. But does the radio actually work?
I just brought home my 12 week old puppy, today is the 4th day shes been home and she wont stop crying when i leave the room and at night, its stressing me out! she sleeps with a soft teddy and blanket but she always jumps up at the side of the bed and doesnt seem to care when i push her away.. ive heard that italian greyhounds can be harder to train, i hope thats not the case
i have a st. bearnard puppy 2months old……when it is day he is very happy but during bedtyyme he starts crying and crying and crying ..i also put a hot bottle covered with a blanket and a ticking clock but it doesn,t work ..i also take him to batbroom and outstairs but he dnoesn,t stop….the whole family is disturbed from his crying …plz help me …….
My boyfriend and I just got an 8 week old bichon. We keep her in the kitchen in her kennel and block off the kitchen with a baby gate. She cries all night everynight! I’ve tried the warm water and it helps for about an hour then she starts crying again. Any tips or suggestions?
ive a 11 week old chihuahua ive had a week now and he has started crying early hours of the morning waking everyone up . he sleeps in a crate with warm bedding a toilet area and plenty of water is available to him he has 2 cuddle toys and i cover the crate at night. he tolerates going to bed easy and will sleep till around 4-5am . i made the mistake of getting up to see if he was ok just to be greeted by a playful pup he only settled once i lay on the sofa to which he then fell back to sleep .so is obviously still tired . he is now taking to crying for me all day if i leave the room he crys . is there any tips on stopping this ?
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I was a bit skeptical about the ticking clock. I bought a small ticking clock for €2 in the shape of a football, Scottie keeps it in the bed and it is the only thing in the Den that has never and I mine NEVER been chewed. Its the best thing I’ve ever gotten him beside his Kong.
Great post, the ticking tock is really good but only for some dogs, what we have found that works well is a small radio with very low music and of coarse lights all off. Other than that we can cover the crate if you’re using crate training mbut please lets make sure we leave an open space for ventalation. And apart from that we can also use a Kong.
HI Ihave a 17 week old puppy we keep her in her bed at night downstairs there is a stair gate so she cant get up stairs in the night but this is now a problem she crys for hours i leave her but the whole house is a wake all night with her crying and houling ive tryed hot water bottle and a clock but they are not working she is so desprate to get up stairs that she is trying to get through the railings what can we do to help her sleep through the night .
Hi Sharon,
Have you tried crate training her? A crate can add security. Make sure it is not too big or small for her and cover it with a blanket. Also make sure she is tired before bedtime, been to the toilet, then take 5 mins to settle her down. Do not drag out going to bed or put a cue to it. Also practising during the day is key. Leave her down there and go and read for a bit upstairs, only returning when she is quiet, she will soon learn there is nothing to fret about and you will be coming back every time..
I have puppy mix lab 3 1/2 months, and I train my puppy in her room, the room is front of my room.. I have urinate her and given the food for at least 2 and half hours of her bedtime… The bedtime is around 8.30 pm.. And I prepare the drink for she to drink all the night… It’s okay if her pee in the night, but she cries everytime nobody outside in the room, I had make her play from afternoon in 3.30 pm until 5 pm… she soo hyperactive… but she don’t want be alone.. it’s okay if I leave her whining and cries?? And everytime the water pump engine is on she stop cries….
Hi we have a 10 week old Lab/Cocker cross puppy who seems to be having the same dilemma as everyone else. First night he was absolutely fine, cried for a mere 20 minutes and we knew that if we went down he would keep expecting it so he fell asleep quickly. The second night however, he got very distressed and pooed in his crate because we were told to close the crate a couple of times at night so he knew that it was his territory etc. We have heared about the ticking clock and a friend has mentioned it to. But does the radio actually work?
I just brought home my 12 week old puppy, today is the 4th day shes been home and she wont stop crying when i leave the room and at night, its stressing me out! she sleeps with a soft teddy and blanket but she always jumps up at the side of the bed and doesnt seem to care when i push her away.. ive heard that italian greyhounds can be harder to train, i hope thats not the case
i have a st. bearnard puppy 2months old……when it is day he is very happy but during bedtyyme he starts crying and crying and crying ..i also put a hot bottle covered with a blanket and a ticking clock but it doesn,t work ..i also take him to batbroom and outstairs but he dnoesn,t stop….the whole family is disturbed from his crying …plz help me …….
My boyfriend and I just got an 8 week old bichon. We keep her in the kitchen in her kennel and block off the kitchen with a baby gate. She cries all night everynight! I’ve tried the warm water and it helps for about an hour then she starts crying again. Any tips or suggestions?
ive a 11 week old chihuahua ive had a week now and he has started crying early hours of the morning waking everyone up . he sleeps in a crate with warm bedding a toilet area and plenty of water is available to him he has 2 cuddle toys and i cover the crate at night. he tolerates going to bed easy and will sleep till around 4-5am . i made the mistake of getting up to see if he was ok just to be greeted by a playful pup he only settled once i lay on the sofa to which he then fell back to sleep .so is obviously still tired . he is now taking to crying for me all day if i leave the room he crys . is there any tips on stopping this ?